- PPF Points
- 2,888
Juggling client updates is honestly a minefield. I mean, I’ve definitely fumbled it before—too many messages and suddenly they’re ghosting me, too few and you get that “are you even working?” vibe. What I’ve figured out (after a few awkward missteps) is that you gotta read the room. Some folks want a weekly novel (okay, maybe not a novel, but you get me), others just want a “hey, milestone hit!” text and that’s it.
First thing I do? I just ask. No fancy survey, just a straight-up “how do you want to hear from me?” Some people are email warriors, some live for Slack, some want a Zoom call so they can see your face and know you’re not a robot. Saves so many headaches if you sort that out up front.
And for the love of all that is holy, ditch the jargon. Clients do not care how many lines of code you wrote or that you refactored the API for the third time. They want to know what’s different for them. Can they finally click that button that didn’t work last week? Show ‘em. Screenshots, videos, whatever—pictures beat a wall of text every time. Makes them feel like stuff’s actually happening.
Oh, and don’t hide the scary stuff, but don’t spook them either. If there’s a roadblock, just say what it means for the deadline or their budget. No technical horror stories needed.
Regular check-ins? Game changer. Even if it’s just a quick “still on track, nothing weird this week!” message, it builds trust. Clients like routines, turns out—makes them feel in the loop without stalking you. But you gotta stay chill too. Sometimes a big update pops up and you just ping them. No need to wait for the “official” report.
Anyway, finding that sweet spot is honestly trial and error. Every client’s different, and you’ll mess up sometimes (I still do, not gonna lie). But a little honesty and a lot of common sense goes a long way.
First thing I do? I just ask. No fancy survey, just a straight-up “how do you want to hear from me?” Some people are email warriors, some live for Slack, some want a Zoom call so they can see your face and know you’re not a robot. Saves so many headaches if you sort that out up front.
And for the love of all that is holy, ditch the jargon. Clients do not care how many lines of code you wrote or that you refactored the API for the third time. They want to know what’s different for them. Can they finally click that button that didn’t work last week? Show ‘em. Screenshots, videos, whatever—pictures beat a wall of text every time. Makes them feel like stuff’s actually happening.
Oh, and don’t hide the scary stuff, but don’t spook them either. If there’s a roadblock, just say what it means for the deadline or their budget. No technical horror stories needed.
Regular check-ins? Game changer. Even if it’s just a quick “still on track, nothing weird this week!” message, it builds trust. Clients like routines, turns out—makes them feel in the loop without stalking you. But you gotta stay chill too. Sometimes a big update pops up and you just ping them. No need to wait for the “official” report.
Anyway, finding that sweet spot is honestly trial and error. Every client’s different, and you’ll mess up sometimes (I still do, not gonna lie). But a little honesty and a lot of common sense goes a long way.

